Sometimes you do everything right;You follow all the rules to a ‘t’ and still, you don’t get the desired/promised outcome.Life is so unfair right?!You argue the point that you have done all that was required of you and it’s others’ fault that things aren’t as they should be. Blood pressure rising and feelings of frustration …
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Pick Your Poison
We select our own poison;And sit with it, sipping or gulping according to the mood.We feel the pain;See the damage it’s doing to us,But can’t quite pour it down the drain. We pray and ask God to help us;Save us from destruction;But refuse to put let go of the very thing that’s breaking us down. …
Just breathe
The other day I was talking to someone and she was saying that she hates taking pictures because she immediately zooms in on all her flaws and can identify every single one.My response was: But no one else is even seeing what you’re looking at. And if they do, they probably don’t even care.She said: …
Heat & Gratitude
This heat has been whooping my behind more than ever before.I’ve always felt ‘hotter’ than everyone else around me… so much so I swear I’m in early menopause, cause God forbid I endure this torture twice.I’m always fanning, even in a/c and get baffled stares from my colleagues and strangers. Yesterday morning I left home …
A Sure End
I heard about 2 deaths this past week… a co-worker and a mutual acquaintance of family and friend: 1 was a result of illness and the other by choice. Most people prefer not to think about death; They would rather it creep up like a thief in the night, totally unexpected, and yet still, everyone …
Not on my watch🙅🏾♀️
I am not going to practice suffering.There’s no dry-run or mock exam on my watch.Life is unpredictable and throws shots that keep you ducking and dodging constantly.So when it’s good I’m gonna enjoy the calm, and when I reach that bridge or meet obstacles that I can’t avoid, and I have no choice but to …
Clarity wins
Clear & direct communication removes the opportunity for misinterpretation.
Hey you…🪞
If you don’t show up and advocate for yourself, who do you expect to do it for you?And when you show up, make sure your voice is heard… whether it’s shaking a little or as smooth as honey.And don’t you ever apologize for doing so.
Romanticize Your Life
Romanticize your life…Make a big deal about special occasions;Celebrate ordinary days;Let every thing be bigger & better because YOU get to decide how it will be;Regardless of what your reality truly looks like.And it’s not about being delusional, it’s about taking control of the only thing you CAN control…How you show up and how you …
Pain is good
Pain sends a message; tells us something important. Most times we don’t want to receive it; we’re highly annoyed by this inconvenience.We have so much going on and this slows us down; completely derails our plans.Whether it’s injury to a limb or an organ; our heart shattered or our ego deflated, pain serves a specific …
